and you wouldn't have made it without it

I’ll know his hands a mile away..(He’ll take me straight through the gate)

Do you throw it in the well, Wishing you had someone to tell what it was that you wished for, So it couldn’t come true anymore?
I’ve thrown so much away
These times die and stay alive
I’ve gone and I’ve stayed, And though both happened at the same time
I know which one I like, And which one I hate
You never change to fire if you’re ice
Even if you melt on a table and dry
And that table is burned, I’ll tell you why..
Cuz you stayed by going away..and
Life changes not you
Life changes, not you
Every time is cointained in now
Now is the only time anything happens
Though one moment shot in infinity’s rounds
Now is the only time anything happens here.

"..just to keep changing..
and to constantly re-define myself.."